“I can turn any girl into a slut”
Sure you can buddy. Would you like a golf clap to go with that inflated ego? I have heard this all too often, and not to burst your bubble but you don’t turn them into sluts – they gift their slutdom to you. You just have a knack for choosing girls who enjoy spreading their legs. Don’t let it go to your head so quickly, either of them. Whether it is her first time spreading her legs so easily or not, a slut is a slut is a slut (and I say that with all the love in my heart).
There is nothing more off putting than receiving a message from an attractive guy/dom who closes with “And if you’ve ever been curious about being a dirty little girl, I can mentor/guide you”. Hold up buddy, you think little old me has what it takes to be a proper little slut *doe eyes* I am just so honoured that you think I could be added to one of your hoards of women. Except that I am already an established slut. And when established sluts get these messages, we roll our eyes. If our brains weren’t there to stop it, our eyes might roll all the way back into our skulls and just jangle around for the rest of time. But thankfully we have brains to stop that from happening.
I know you think you are “padding” your sextastic dating resume when you say that, but all you are doing is being a creep. If I want to know about your penis, or its regular activities I will ask. Why, because I am a slut. Good sluts know when to step out of their slutty closets and get down to business. Maybe what you mean when you say “I can turn any girl into a slut” is – I can sniff out a closeted slut based on the brand of her panties and how uncomfortable she looks in todays slut shaming world. Which really isn’t really that great of a talent.
I see so many everyday joes (and josephines) that shame sluts who, I can just see in their heart of hearts, wish that they could be a proper slut. But they cant because of a choice they make they still feel the need “improve the world” by taking away my free choice to be a slut. What they seem to miss, as do you, is that I choose who I am a slut for. It has nothing to do with how convincing/coercive you are, but with my decision to gift you my slutiness. I wont give up my sex to someone who isn’t worthy. I actually love it when men feel the need to try to shame me into being a slut when they don’t meet my standards, by accusing me of being a prude. As if I need to prove to them my slut status. However I hate it when other women disregard my points of view as being invalid because I choose to have agency over my sexuality in a different way than they choose to operate.
Are there creeps who are coercive, and push young inexperienced sluts into doing things they aren’t comfortable doing, yes. Do you want to be one of those creeps, no. Why not? Do you really want someone to associate bad or unfulfilling sex with you? For a slut there is nothing worse than being promised a good time, and being left with a sense of ennui afterwards. And trust me, sluts talk to one another. There is a slut network, and we gossip about your bad techniques, and sloppy dismounts if you are unfulfilling. We suggest that our friends not see you. Just a few weeks ago I was asked by a new friend regarding a local guy who makes the rounds in the queer-slut circles. I have never fucked him personally but he has little to no respect for limits I have repeatedly set up – so in all good conscience I cannot recommend him to anyone.
If you want me to be impressed with your multitudes of talent when it comes to sluts, learn to be humble. Women aren’t girls anymore, we aren’t impressed with you taking up space with your ego. The very best sex Ive ever had has been with men who have never even mentioned that they are excellent at sniffing out a slut, but I know they are. A good slut knows when she has hit the GGG jackpot,and will not need your big manly help coming to that conclusion.